Dating skills are just a subset of what you need. I’ll show you what you’ve been missing.
Imagine building your dream home by yourself, with no training. Failure. But if you train and get a contractor’s license, you’ll have the expertise you need to build your life-long vision. Voila! This program provides the expertise you need to fulfill your dream of finding your partner.
All dating skills are a subset of four partner‑finding skills:
ONE: With dating, flaws need to be hidden or fixed. With partnering, flaws are embraced.
The two most destructive dating myths sold to men is that you must be invulnerable, and that you must prove your worth.
Nonsense. First, we connect through our vulnerability. For men, that’s open-hearted and strong, heartfelt and virile. Unapologetically relaxing your into your core masculine strength and vulnerability is the most effective way to meet your partner.
Second, you’ll meet your life partner just. As. You. Are. Natural, messy, you, the you that you are when no one’s looking or judging, is who will find the woman who is uniquely right for you.
In the workplace, you get hired for the skills you DO have, not those you don’t have. You landed that fancy I.T. job because of your I.T. skills. Your tech boss does not care that you lack a medical degree. There are loads of women who are looking for what you already offer. What you lack is unimportant to them.
Scarred from childhood from so many betrayals? Plenty of women have been hurt and want someone who knows how to be vulnerable, and to safeguard it in a relationship.
Too old? You’d be shocked to learn how many women desire a mature man.
Too many pounds? No way. Many women hope to find a man who is at ease in his own body. Still have kids at home? Moms want men who are parents too.
You get the idea. You’ll step back from the power drive performative competition to prove your worth. Your authenticity will instantly filter out the 99.99% of those who aren’t right for you. That’s why men’s so‑called imperfections are a secret dating superpower.
Men complain that finding a life partner is like pulling a needle out of a haystack. I say:
You already possess a magnet to pull the needle out of the haystack. I’ll show you how to use it.
The program gives you:
3 tools to reverse your old mindset about invulnerable, performative competition and leading with an open heart
2 methods to make your heartfelt masculinity an asset
5 shortcuts to meeting your Person
Letting go of competitivenes and perfectionism frees you up to discover your full self‑worth. Your true value comes from the inside, has always been there, and is unconditional. Most men have been socialized to measure themselves by performance and productivity. This comes at the cost of seeing how desirable and lovable they are, just as they are.
Your partner‑finding skill comes from being centered in and owning your own worth. A strong sense of your own value automatically creates healthy boundaries that connect you to the right woman.
Boundaries matter.
The course teaches you how to unleash your natural instinct for boundaries and and live from your pure‑gold male worth. Relating to women through your boundaries built from your value gives you the balance between being too tolerant, picky or way too giving.
You’ll no longer be drawn to women who don’t appreciate you. No more heartache or mind games! Others can see your full worth. When you inhabit your real worth you become a beacon for kindred spirits.
The program gives you:
A three‑phase exercise that transforms your social reflex to wall off or compete into natural self‑worth
A relaxing guided experience of your self‑worth as an emotional immune system that keeps non‑partner (the posers and crazy women) away
The positive traits that we show off when dating are like the icing on the cake. Partners get the whole dessert.
It’s naïve to think that what attracts you to dates is what you want in a life partner. Dating traits are a subset of what you want in a partner.
The program gives you: a 200+‑item checklist for what you want in a life partner.
You’ll learn to evaluate plenty of good and bad points in dates that you’d usually ignore. You gain the mega‑clarity to spot The One.
Dates look for what they can get from one another. Partners focus on what they offer each other.
SHOCKER: Knowing what you offer is far more important for two reasons. Claiming the authority of what you bring is empowering, alluring, and protects you from squandering your masculine gifts. Plus what you bring to a partner is so much more than what you offer a date. A partner mindset is growthful and calls forth even more than you ever knew you had.
This class teaches you to be big and bold, and emotionally vulnerable at the same time. Then two things happen. You’ll stand out so your partner can see you. You’ll connect with those who also know the high value of what they bring to a relationship. This saves you from wasting time with women who aren’t for you.
The program gives you:
A 200+‑item checklist to discover your gifts
A relaxed, experiential deep dive into the soul of your unique guy energies
Book a free discovery call now! Text me at 510‑913‑4683