'The spark' describes the essence of romantic relationships. Can you recall ‘the spark’ at the start of your couples' journey? Remember how your early days were on fire? In the beginning, you just can’t get enough of your partner. You want to see them all...
Dear Partner, The terrible moment when you discovered your partner’s affair is called D Day. Some say that D stands for Discovery but I say it means Didn’t Know. You didn’t know that you could be SO devastated. Since D Day you’ve cried, raged, numbed...
Winning Her Back (To the reader: This letter is written with traditional pronouns. However, it addresses a universal challenge that is shared across all genders, identities, orientations, and cultures.) Dear Cheater, You aced your private life. And you believed that you could always protect your...
There are four traits of stonewallers Rejection. First, stonewallers reject their partner’s attempts to solve problems, negotiate, or get closer unless it’s on their terms. “My way or the highway” is the stonewaller’s motto. Surprisingly sensitive. A second key is that they usually experience their...